Yes, he does have those behaviors you're talking about. Not sure about the last one, though. I haven't noticed that before.
Well, the Psychologist who diagnosed him first only recommended ST, OT, and Social Skills training. The Neurologist who diagnosed him second (at one of the best Children's Hospitals in the country) simply recommended the Special Ed class and Speech Therapy. That's it! I was expecting a lot more guidance. And for some reason I can't fathom, I forgot to ask for more guidance!
If no mental retardation, then a large part of the problem probably is not being able to take the other person's viewpoint ("theory of mind") and ABA can work on that. I have not seen the SLPs (locally) work as hard on that as the ABAs can. They just don't have the hours necessary, this seems to be something that has to be worked on every "teaching" moment across the day.special ed offers speech but it's usually not enough.
So we do afterschool private speech as well.
My youngest son has a severe language delay. He has been in a Birth to 3 program, received early intervention services, and had private speech sessions with a highly regarded speech-language pathologist. He made progress with all of this. However, the best thing we ever did for him was VB/ABA. For children with speech issues, VB/ABA is really the best therapy available. I know it's expensive, but go for it if you can.
Go for the home based ABA, you will net the best results. You can alwaysThank you all so much!
Dad2Luke&Allen,
Yes, you're right, he's not mentally retarded according to the school district.
I know it's expensive. The reason we haven't pursued ABA. However, I think it is a really important part of helping them. I pray you make the decision right for yoru family.
The last one (about knowing what the other person knows) is possibly something that you'd not notice at three.Can you all please give me advice on which I should choose for my son? He just turned 3 and has PDD-NOS. His main deficit is in Language which is around the 12 month level and is actually lower than it was a year ago. His behavioral issues are relatively mild. He has no repetitive behaviors, but does have a good bit of aggression. He also has tantrums, but these are not too excessive.
I haven't yet had his ARD with the school district, so I don't know what the Special Ed class will have to offer him. I believe the class size is about 6 with a teacher and 2 aides. They told me they will provide Speech & OT even if we choose Head Start or a home program. By the way, we are in Texas.
I have talked with the Special Ed coordinator of Head Start and was thrilled with what they would do for him. They would provide an aide for him plus one girl in a wheelchair who mainly needs assistance in going to the restroom. This aide will give him extra help and work with him on language. He'd also be able to have a flexible schedule tailored to his needs (that was a biggie to me--I hate the thought of sending my baby away). They would make a behavior plan for the aggression and tantrums, and help potty-train him.
The other option is a home ABA program. I would have therapists (people I know that my BCBA would train) doing 10-15 hours a week, then I would also do an additional 10 hours a week myself. The BCBA would oversee the program.
Financially, the home program will be hard for us to afford. We're in debt up to our eyeballs already and can't borrow anymore money. We have no significant savings. We do have a large tax refund coming which would fund the initial program setup and training.
I want to provide him with the most intensive work I can (especially in language/speech) while he's young.
We're also about to be starting Speech Therapy through an outside SLP with extensive Autism experience who uses ABA. That will be 2 or 3 50 minute sessions a week.
Please, any advice would help me so much! I had pretty much decided not to send him to school, but that was before I knew they would do so much for him. I had no idea the help offered would be so extensive. Plus, I think he may enjoy the other kids and the extra stimulation should be good for him. We don't get out too much, because he has 2 younger sisters.
[QUOTE=proudofmyself]Sometimes speech therapy is the answer. Some Special Education programs for the Autistic offer Speech Therapy right there. With the right therapy, they'll be on track, usually. Sometimes they'll improve over time. If you don't want the therapy...do whatevers recommended.[/QUOTE]