Heather I was told by my son's therapist that these kids are too impulsive to be able to handle something like this. Once they learn it theres no telling when they will and wont use it or who they will use it on. So many of our kids like to re enact things from memory as a form of play. To try to educate them between right and wrong is a nice thought, but many of our kids have language delays and simply will NOT understand. I suppose it would be up to the individual parent to decide if they felt it would be benefuicial for their child or not. I know it would not be in my child's best interest at this time - hes almost 10 and still has safety issues and can't be alone outside anyways.
I agree. Our kids often misread situations, even the high functioning ones. We could have one of them putting a head lock on someone who makes a joke to them because they misunderstood. I don't envisage letting my son out without supervision either and he has language etc.Hello Everyone,
I am concerned about the safety of the children with special needs. I am an elementary teacher in central Ohio and my husband teaches self defense/ safety programs through Impact Safety Programs. ( http://www.impactsafety.org/ ) We are interested in developing a program for special needs/ autistic children to better prepare them for the dangers of the world. Unfortunately we, as parents or caregivers, are unable to be with a child 24/7. We need to find strategies that will begin the process of their safety. I would like your input on this topic. We want to serve you and your family's needs. I have a few things I have developed. However, everyone here seems to have more knowledge on the topic. I want to do this right the first time. Thank you for your input in advance.
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I am rather torn by my answer here. I know it it a very cruel world we live in, and they are going to need something to protect them from bullies. However, what if they were to use it on us parents? I hafta wrestle with AJ just to put his clothes or pj's on. Believe me he is very strong and rolls over and kicks and screeches. Would they know when and when not to use it? My son, AJ, is going to be 4, and I don't think he would understand. However, is there a certain age to where they truly understand what we are saying? I hope others with older children reply as to how they feel about it.
Thank you for your reply. I understand your concern with differentiating between the situations. We have considered using pictures that would represent situations that are "right" and "wrong". Therefore, adding strategies of protection to the "wrong" pictures. It is also my understanding, that not all strategies work for all children with autism. We are currently brainstorming other methods that may work as well. My son tried karate a few years ago and hated it. He lacked the attention