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Well my ex and I are mending our fences so to speak. He wasn't able to make it down here for the past weekend because of car difficulties. Someone smashed the rear end of his car and he actually took pictures to prove he wasn't lieing and just blowing the boys off with excuses. The money that he was supposed to send is set to be deposited into my support enforcement account. It's showing up online that he paid it though...big surprise there, but I'm glad he finally stepped up. One of our biggest problems we had during our relationship belive it or not was a video game that I was "obsessed" with. As a gesture of good faith that I'm doing my best to become a better person and mother, I got rid of the account entirely. I hadn't even logged into it since April and then it was only to talk to an old friend, not to play. I haven't really played the game since I left my ex. I sold it on ebay lol. It's amazing that someone will actually pay for soemthing like that. I got 60 bucks, and it'll come in handy. I was a little sad. It felt like I was adopting out one of my kids when I did the transfer yesterday. That character got me through some pretty tough times when Brendon was a baby with SID and would only sleep abut 2 or 3 hours a night. He wasn't always in meltdown mode, but I felt bad about sleeping while he was awake, so I'd stay up and play that game until he fell asleep. Then when we were going through the actual diagnosis, I didn't have this wonderful forum to fall back on for support. I had the people in that game though, and they helped keep me sane. I just feel sad. It's like an important part of my life left yesterday. The guy who bought her promised me periodic updates. Like I said, it was like adopting out one of my kids. Rhosyn39371.2995023148It must have been a tough decision, but you are doing what you feel is right to make a better relationship between you and your ex, and that is going to benefit the boys so much. I'm glad he is still doing the things he promised!! Hope it all continues to go well, and how nice of the guy who bought your game to keep you posted!!
It is great that you both are doing everything in your power for the sake of your family. The game served it's purpose and you are moving on to bigger and better things. Releasing the past and embrasing the future. I so hope this works out for you all.
I was doing some research, and found out that accounts like this usually go for about $250, but I let him have it much lower. He's the parent of two teenagers with aspergers. I felt a kinship and let it go much cheaper than the going price on the condition that I get updates . At least I got to pick her new home instead of doing a randome auction for the highest price.You go girl !!!That was nice of you Rhosyn - and I hope things get better soon! It sounds like your ex is trying to turn his life around and that can only be good. Take care!woah sounds like an awesome game,i was kinda like that with animal crossing.

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	Well my ex and I are mending our fences so to speak. He wasn't able to make it down here for the past weekend because of car difficulties. Someone smashed the rear end of his car and he actually took pictures to prove he wasn't lieing and just blowing the boys off with excuses. The money that he was supposed to send is set to be deposited into my support enforcement account. It's showing up online that he paid it though...big surprise there, but I'm glad he finally stepped up. One of our biggest problems we had during our relationship belive it or not was a video game that I was "obsessed" with. As a gesture of good faith that I'm doing my best to become a better person and mother, I got rid of the account entirely. I hadn't even logged into it since April and then it was only to talk to an old friend, not to play. I haven't really played the game since I left my ex. I sold it on ebay lol. It's amazing that someone will actually pay for soemthing like that. I got 60 bucks, and it'll come in handy. I was a little sad. It felt like I was adopting out one of my kids when I did the transfer yesterday. That character got me through some pretty tough times when Brendon was a baby with SID and would only sleep abut 2 or 3 hours a night. He wasn't always in meltdown mode, but I felt bad about sleeping while he was awake, so I'd stay up and play that game until he fell asleep. Then when we were going through the actual diagnosis, I didn't have this wonderful forum to fall back on for support. I had the people in that game though, and they helped keep me sane. I just feel sad. It's like an important part of my life left yesterday. The guy who bought her promised me periodic updates. Like I said, it was like adopting out one of my kids. Rhosyn39371.2995023148It must have been a tough decision, but you are doing what you feel is right to make a better relationship between you and your ex, and that is going to benefit the boys so much. I'm glad he is still doing the things he promised!! Hope it all continues to go well, and how nice of the guy who bought your game to keep you posted!! It is great that you both are doing everything in your power for the sake of your family. The game served it's purpose and you are moving on to bigger and better things. Releasing the past and embrasing the future. I so hope this works out for you all. I was doing some research, and found out that accounts like this usually go for about $250, but I let him have it much lower. He's the parent of two teenagers with aspergers. I felt a kinship and let it go much cheaper than the going price on the condition that I get updates . At least I got to pick her new home instead of doing a randome auction for the highest price.You go girl !!!That was nice of you Rhosyn - and I hope things get better soon! It sounds like your ex is trying to turn his life around and that can only be good. Take care!woah sounds like an awesome game,i was kinda like that with animal crossing.
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