keith is 4.8 and still not trained to bm in the potty. we have made great progress though b/c we found he loves to spray things. so his reward is that if he will "stinky in the potty" he can spray the "stinky" away spray..... room deoderizer. the problem is, even when he hides in his room and does it, i still have to spray everything down after clean up. so he still gets the stim of the spray by smell and sound, but HE is not the one allowed to spray it. if he goes in the potty, he gts to spray it himself.
kate
My son is 4 and sigh....not potty trained. I am still working at it.
The link below may be helpful to you. We long ago had to switch from diapers to the goodnight's, it may be something your family wants to think about to. The pull up type training pants just do not work for us.
Welcome aboard, this is a wonderful place and I am sure that there will be a lot of great advise for you here. I have learned so much.