DSM IV CRITERIA IS LISTED ABOVE TOO........
I drove myself crazy reading stuff on the internet to prove to myself that my boy wasn't on the spectrum. There would be those days where everything seemed just fine....then there was the hand-flapping day (which thankfully lasted only one day) that had me in tears. I tried to convince myself that my ds just wasn't like the other kids on the spectrum....but the truth remains that he isn't like NT kids either. He is socialble, he will make eye contact, he gives hugs and kisses, he loves to play outdoors, I can take him anywhere and not have to worry about meltdowns, BUT, on the other hand, he self stims by flapping toys by his face at times, he recites videos and books (he memorizes them after hearing once or twice), he has both immediate and delayed echolalia, he is obsessed with cotton balls, he doesn't know how to play properly - and the list goes on. If I were to put him into an ASD category it would be hyperlexia which fits him almost to an exact T, but the fact remains that it's still an ASD. Knowing that my ds has autism is hard to swallow but SAYING it is even harder because when others hear "autism" they immediately think the worst. I hope that with so many kids having autism these days that their condition becomes more accepted and not so scary to people.
Please don't take this wrong. It is not ment to be critical, but to be used as an example.....
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If I were to put him into an ASD category it would be hyperlexia which fits him almost to an exact T, but the fact remains that it's still an ASD. Knowing that my ds has autism is hard to swallow but SAYING it is even harder because when others hear "autism" they immediately think the worst. I hope that with so many kids having autism these days that their condition becomes more accepted and not so scary to people.
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I think the use of words is also something to think about. Im not trying to be critical here but Autism in itself is something much of society is not educated about. The few people who are, automatically think of "Rainman". Most don't know anything about the disorder much less the 5 categories of ASD's. Now with the EXPANDED ASD's such as High Functioning Autism, Non Verbal Learning Disabilities, Semantic Pragmatic Communication (or Language) Disorder, Hyperlexia, ADHD and whatever else they may decide to throw in there next.... to have a child who is high functioning and say he is "AUTISTIC" does make people question it because people do automatically think worst case senerio. Thats where I feel use of words plays a part... saying your child is on the spectrum, has a form of HFA Autism, or calling it what it is would get less disbelief and help educate society. Just an interesting thought is all....
Michelle posted my thread on SPD. Just a prelimary dx now waiting for further testing.
DS 4.5 has delayed speech, verbal but not in sentences, eye contact at times, echolalia, very affectionate, social with other children but has no idea what anyone is playing, can not peddle a bike, poor diet, some creative play but also scripts from movies, poor fine motor skills, daytime potty trained @ 4 yrs, constant need for hugging. Does not hand flap or toe walk, has great computer skills. I am sure there is more but mind is blank
cyrstal1971 my son spends alot of time in front of the mirror also??? What's up with that??? Greggsmom, I thought the mirror thing was funny. We even filmed him checking himself out, taking his sunglasses on and off, looking at his butt, checking out his smile, etc. I was surprised when she asked me that, as I had no idea it was a symptom...your son sounds like mine. I am having a hard time believing he is autistic, as he can read my emotions just fine, loves to be around people, he just has a problem communicating and he has NO INTEREST in toys except to throw them from one place to another. I think that is his biggest autism symptom. We have poor fine motor skills also, but I cannot get him to pay attention long enough to do buttons or color. His speech is mostly memorized sentences that he says when I give a queue or the echolalia I am going to look into SPD. Thanks This sounds like my son, but we are waiting for a diagnosis still. He is 3. Has echolalia (immediate and delayed). He is very social, asks for certain people, etc. The doctor (developemental ped) we took him to said that he had eye contact only occasionally, which was a red flag, had some repetitive motions (light switches) and very delayed speech. Did a developmental ped give you this diagnosis? We just are unsure about the autism diagnosis (I am pretty sure they will give him this, as they heavily hinted at it) as he seems so social, does NOT mind changes in his routine at all, and does have eye contact except when he first meets strangers (he closes his eyes). Hopefully you will get some good replies to this question We just had a thread on this a few weeks ago Semantic Pragmatic Disorder, Anyone? It may be of help to you. Please be careful when looking and researching,.. it is good to educate yourself; It is a different story to self diagnose your child. There are many things you can look at and convince yourself you child has even if they don't. So please be careful. Crystal HF = High Functioning http://www.pediatricneurology.com/autism.htm#Semantic-Pragma tic%20Communication%20Disorder Autistic Spectrum Disorders: Sorting It Out
In the info for newbies thread there is a copy of the DSM IV criteria for Autism. Have a look it may be useful.
I think that there are a few parents here with kids that have this (possibly in addition to other things).
It seems a good fit for our kid, even tho he has some other symptoms.
Because he makes such good eye contact at times, and isn't adverse to
cuddling, seeking us out for it at times, it almost seems like we're
looking at SPD combined with sensory issues (hence the occasional toe
walking, teeth clenching, occasional flapping, etc.).
Any parents of SPD kids here have notes to compare? Is delayed echolalia a big part of SPD?
They also said he had some sensory issues (spends a lot of time in front of a mirror looking at himself)
But he does ask for us, and for his primary playmate. He doesn't always
want to truly interact with the person he's asking for tho -- just
wants them around. And once they're there, he doesn't truly communicate
with them. Just gets in their face with his delayed echolalia.
Here I am self-diagnosing again.
What is HF? I read they really do not start to "play" with others until the age of 3. My son does, but the speech gap is beginning to be a factor for him, as the other kids are not interested. It is true that he cannot pick up on that, (that they are not interested in playing with him), so he does have some social issues I guess. His vocabulary consists of ONLY stuff that is important to him, types of food, favorite toys, places, people, names of movies, etc., but nothing spontaneous or abstract. I will have to look into the sensory thing. So much to learn I guess.
Great, you figured something out. Congratulations! Now, you may want to share that idea with another human mind. If so, your brain translates the idea into a sequence of words. The words are translated into vibrations that depart from your mouth, sail long distances through the air, and land on my eardrum. These vibrations are turned back into words, and then into meaningful sentences and ideas. My brain also picks up other non-verbal language, such as your facial expression and tone of voice. Meanwhile, I figure out any “hidden agenda” or “subtext” when you said those words. All these elements mix together to come up with an accurate understanding of what your “self” meant to communicate to my “self.”
It’s amazing that this process works at all. It is not really amazing that some people have trouble with some aspect of it. Those people whose primary difficulty is understanding the literal meaning of words are considered to have “traditional” speech and language disabilities. Those people who have difficulty in the non-verbal parts of communication (including their desire and ability to use language in a social context) may be considered to have an Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD).
The Skills Involved in Communication
In order for us to effectively communicate, we need skill in multiple areas, including (A) verbal and (B) non- verbal arenas.
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