Allegra
My Husband and I were talking about Sharlet's fear with bathing and he wondered if she would play in the tub with another child? In your post you said you have a friend with a little girl who has autism, what do you think?
Or he suggested letting her play in the tub without water, maybe rolling balls around. then adding water a very little bit at a time, to see if that will help.
I just can't get you and Sharlet out of my mind and her fear of the bath. I hope the Dr. can help her because I can see you have tried everything you can think of to help her. You are a GREAT MOMMA
Big hugs from us to you!
Grandma to Devin 3 yrs. ASD / SID