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My daughter has verbal stims/responses to many words. This has gone on for years but seems to be getting worse. It started mainly with her getting upset at what were mostly directives - "look", "sit", "type"; but now has expanding to many words with a "T". It has been a big distruption and distraction as far as school and even communication within our home between family members. I've never read or heard anything about this and am wondering if there is anyone out there with a similar experience. This is not the typical auditory defensiveness getting upset or worried about sounds (toilets, alarms etc). Help please...any information would be appreciated.

This seems not too unusual to me, though not exactly my dd's thing either.

Directives in particular would make sense, really. Maybe these are things she has a tough time doing, individually, or does she resent being asked to do ANYTHING?

Mine has a fit if anyone "copies off of her," ie, repeats her words, even if in answer to a question.  Or "copies off of HER movies, songs, etc." 

She is school age?  How old?

foxl39287.4499884259This isn't much help, I know, but when my son was much younger (he's 12 now), he would get VERY upset if anyone would say, "Be right back". Thankfully, he outgrew it. My ds gets very upset when I use words that he feels are not exact like,
when I say 'in a second' but it takes me 20 seconds. He also hates to be
called anything but his name, he screams if you'd call him 'cutie' or
'smartie' or 'handsome' or anything like that. Him getting mad about it
has been getting worth too. So for my ds it is about language that is not
exact even though he himself does not use the 'little professor' type
language.
I'm not sure what to make of your dd's? Maybe since they are alll
directives she feels that these words infringe on her as a person by telling
her what to do? Tough one.

She is 16. It sort of started with directives (that was the only common thread I could come up with) but I really don't think that overall it has to do with being asked to do something. Her responses to these "bothersome" words are to anyone speaking to anyone that she can hear. She'll respond to things on TV or radio as well. The words really seem to bother her and like I said the list is growing.

Also, there is some teasing she endures with other kids (also in special ed) saying words that they know will trigger a response.


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