Thanks RCM:)
Hope we get to keep you awhile! What a great site, thanks for sharing it. I have been interested for a while
in collecting artworks by people with autism, so thanks for the links. Any
other leads would be appreciated as well.
My son is 4.5 and presents more like asperger's in that he never had a
speech delay--in fact, he was and is extremely verbally precocious,
talking in full sentences and paragraphs by age two. However, he does
not have any serious obsessive topics of interests, yet. He reads at an
extremely advanced level, and is learning to read music. He has no
interest in other kids unless they're holding a basket of candy or
something...
I would like to know more about treating extreme anxiety and OCD
tendencies in children with autism. I would also LOVE links to teach
parents simple ways to facilitate play, and make their daily homelife more
agreeable for their kids.
I have also had little luck finding information on how to succesfully
communicate with partners or adult family members who also appear to
be on the spectrum. It would certainly be helpful in my life!
Thanks for the site, again.
Hi Mama Kat:
Over the years I have collected so many resources and am anxious to share just the right ones. I very much appreciate your feedback and it looks like I have quite a bit of work cut out for me right now. I will begin adding the requested resources ASAP. Great feedback!
Thanks,
RCM
Hi ShelleyR:
Sarah is beautiful! Please feel free to let me know if there is any specific information or topic of interst that may be lacking in the website. I strive to provide current, useful and relevant information to all parents.
Thanks for the visit!
RCM
Karman
Hi Karman:
Please keep me posted on your interests related to the website info as well!
Thanks for the visit!
Rosa
I would love to know the outcome of kids that are mainstreamed in early years like kindergarten, 1-3rd grade without supports and what kind of prognoses for their future?
Sarah has savant abilities in reading, writing, and musically she can play most tunes by ear...she is very smart but still very quiet around peers...she is aware of them and we did an ABA 30 hrs/week for 3 years & ABA playgroup for 2 years to reinforce her engagement with peers but it only could do so much so I quit it...She could never generalized it to kids outside of playgroup unless I prompted her.
What kind of differences do girls have compared to boys on spectrum in your experience? At what age does having friends become more important to where you are motivated to get involved more? Any advice for increasing social skills? What is the best school placement..public or private?
We completed ABA program last summer before kindergarten so this is her first summer to be free of therapies of any kind. We are doing lots of park trips, swimming and just letting her be a kid:)
Feels really wierd.
Who made God? JK!
I dont get to talk to the experts much so any feedback is most respected:) Thanks in advance:)
Rosa: How neat--thanks for giving us that link. Love the art!
Btw, glad you are back--we missed ya!Wow! Lot's of questions. I love it. I will give you some general answers here and then research more info in order to post such info on the website. Based on my personal clinical experience I can state that many kids that have been mainstreamed into inclusionary settings have been successful in their education programs and have been able to continue into regular education high school placements. The one area that continues to be an issue, pretty much across the board for kids on the spectrum is socialization. There are many resources for increasing socialization skills appropriately. Unfortunately, many ABA therapists aren't focusing appropriately on the larger issue of "teaching kids to want to learn" which is so very intertwined in the socialization process. ABA implemented effectively does not teach isolated skills but encompasses a "desire to learn" that when reinforced results in real "growth". One of the best programs for aiding in teaching social skills are the verbal behavior programs that focus on conversational and reciprocal speech. I feel very strongly about this and will definitely addresss it and clarify in another e-mail if you are interested.
The question is not public vs. private but individual teachers. Both have good and bad. Always take the initiative to know the teachers. Expectations must be kept high. Our kids will only go far if our teachers and parents set high expectations for them.
Temple Grandin once told me that "she has no interest in socialization" and that "her work is her life". She changed my perspectives as an educator back then when I was working with adolescents and adults. I will never stop trying to increase socialization, but do remember to focus on each individuals strengths and to hone those strengths for further growth. The younger the child the more focus should be put into socializing. I will not pretend to know anything about your specific situation, however off the cuff, it sounds to me like Sarah might be able to increase some socialization opportunities by allowing her to play music for her peers. Perhaps they will make some requests and some friends will be made.
Anyway, with all these questions I could probably write a book length response. I will definitely look at each question again individually and respond and gather data based information for you as well.
Alos, I know you were not serious (about God) but I just purchased a new book called "Autism and the God Connection". I haven't read it yet, but I'll keep you posted!
Regards,
RCM
Thanks Elle22!
RCM
Linda
Thankyou for this site.. there is a LOT of fantastic info - I bookmarked this site..Thanks again.Hi Linda:
Three boys! Looks like you have your hands full.
Thanks for visiting.
RCM
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