Stephie1,
My son (27 mos) also HATES doctors, but he did fairly well at the
hearing test. I agree that there's room for concern and that's
why the NP wants your son to see the doctor, but try not to get too
worried about it. Either way, your son is still the same cute
little guy you love now and having a diagnosis (or not) won't change
that at all.
My husband, too,
didn't want to think that anything was wrong with our son, though now
that we have a diagnosis he accepts that there's a problem. From
past discussions we've had on this board, it seems that often (though
not always) it's the father who has the hardest time accepting that
there's a concern. Anyway, we're happy to have you on this board
with us! Best of luck and feel free to ask anything you'd like
here.
Kellie
my son hates the doctors also that is a big battle. when you go to the heargin dr. hopefully they will put in a sound booth and your son on your lap for support. and they will make different pitched sounds and they will look at the which way the sound came from. my son did very well at this test and did not throw any fits cuz the dr. did not touch him during this process.
my son had had 2 sets of tubes one at 6 months the other at 2 1/2 and he passed all 3 of his hearing test.
Tammy ~
Do you know is it always high-pitched noises that the kids don't like/hear?
Riley was the same way...I remember he used to perk-up though everytime he heard Barry White, Isaac Hayes and the like. Quite frankly it used to crack me up...what kid likes Barry White?!?!
~Lesley
With Gabe it was, still is to a degree. As it was explained to me , women tend to have high pitch voices. And with Gabe, lol, its like when you say "don't go out in the street" all he hears is "go out in the street". Lol, which doesn't make sense really. I mean I am gonna tell him to go out into a busy street? But Gabe is very impulsive. One day when we were waiting for the bus he asked me could he wave at the cars. I said no. Then I made sure I had eye contact with him and asked him "if I said yes, would you not do it?"
Tammy
Tammy
THANK YOU so very much for the support, I was feeling alone, I am so glad that I have found this forum and all of the wonderful people in it. I am still pretty uneasy about going to the hearing exam
Stephanie
Stephanie!!!
I am in SC too!!!!
Karrie
Yesterday I took my 2 year old son to be evaluated. We saw the Nurse Practicioner (Our case worker told us it was to weed out kids w/problems vs. kids w/out problems). At the beginning of our session just by talking to me and my son's case worker she wanted to start off on all sorts of tests mri's, hearing, vision, etc... and yes she thought he had a serious problem. After testing my son she wanted to hold off on the mri & the problems wasnt as bad as she thought at the begining. She says that he is 25 month old which he will be 26 mo's old next week and had development of a 21 mo. old. She felt that his problem really lies in his speech and language (which he has neither - he lost both around 18 or 19 months of age), yet we have an appointment with the actual Autism Dr. at the end of August. What is the difference between a 25 or 26 month old childs development from a 21 month old childs development? I truly hope there is nothing wrong with my son, yet I see that there is everyday and night (sleepless nights). Would the nurse prac. had set us up with an actual Dr. if she thought that there was nothing wrong with my son? Am I crazy seeing things that normal 2yr olds do, my husband doesnt want to think that there is any thing wrong with him. He constantly closes doors (he cant turn the knob to open them), throws violent tantrums, wont sleep and when he does wakes in the middle of the night with nighmares, toewalks constantly thru the house, is very repetitive, tunes us out on the whim of a hat and the list goes on and on. We have to go to a hearing screening next week which I dont think that it's going to go well (anyways he hears just fine when he wants to listen to you), he doesnt even like to be in the exam room @ the dr.'s office. Please help I dont know what to think!!!Stephanie1,
First of all....WELCOME!!! My son is 3 1/2 and was not diagnosed with Pdd-Nos until he turned 3. At 26 months even NT children are not expected to have MASS amounts of verbal language so this would explain there not being a huge delay or gap. With my son.....the gap in the delay became worse as he got closer to 3. At first it was simular to your child. This is because of language. It became more and more apparent as he got older. As far as you being crazy...i don't think this is the case..LOL I always tell people that with my first 2 NT children that I never once questioned their development EVER. They both grew with no thoughts about development from me....This is because there was nothing wrong. It's when we see or sense that something is wrong that we start questioning everything they do. Your doing the right things for your child by getting evaluations done. True...it may not be autism.....but you are questioning your chlds development for a reason....and by getting those evaluations done you can find out exactly what you are dealing with and how to better help your child. Good luck.
Karrie
Vision and hearing are pretty standard tests for kids getting evaluated for autism. A hearing test was the first test my twins had. If you're not developing language, it is a good idea to make sure that you are hearing well enough to learn it. One of my twins, actually was only hearing about 60% of what he should have been, and needed tubes in his ears. So, a hearing test is a good idea.
I think the reason she thought he might need an MRI is because of the loss of language. Loss of language is fairly common in kids with autism, but it is still concerning. They might want to make sure there are no major changes in the brain causing the language loss. However, most MRI's done on kids with autism don't show any abnormalities, because whatever brain changes there are, aren't detectable on MRI.
I think you have reason to be concerned, and your son needs further evaluation. As far as the hearing test goes, it is not bad, so don't worry too much about it.
Your child could also have a hearing processing delay. So the autism doctor would want a very thorough hearing test to be able to determine that. Gabe can't hear high pitch noises. He also has a hearing processing delay, along with the pdd-nos, allergies, and asthma.
Tammy
Hi Stephie~ Welcome!!! I think you are doing the right thing at least investigating a POSSIBILITY that something MIGHT be going on with your son. Always better safe than sorry. Its good the nurse didn't seem to think he was as "bad off" as she had first thought.
I am sure you have investigated into signs and symptms of the 5 different Autism Spectrum Disorders but I have included the DSM IV criteria for them
The DSM IV criteria for the autistic disorders
The full diagnostic criteria for the pervasive developmental disorders are outlined below. As mentioned above, the diagnostic criteria for the autistic (PDD) disorders are defined by the DSM IV criteria.
Also this other information may be helpful............ there is more on the bottom of each page but this is the main, general, information which may help. Keep in mind 2 is still pretty young,.... alot of what our kids do can appear like the same thing a NT kid does except keep in mind our kids do it to the extreme!
1. What is PDD or autism?
2. How is PDD or autism diagno sed?
3. The DSMV IV criteria
4. Review of the different PDDs
5. How does a typical child with autism present?
6. The PDD assessment questionnaire
7. Who should be evaluated for PDD?
Here is a page to some milestones that might help http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/actearly/milestones_3months .html
OR
http://www.thenewparentsguide.com/baby-development-month-19t o21.htm
Toddler Development Month 19 to 21
Month 21 Most toddlers should be able to . . . Start to learn up to 5 or more words per day Walk up stairs with some assistance Make structures out of toys or blocks Some toddlers will probably be able to . . . Start to learn up to 10 or more words per day Show good signs of bladder control Throw balls overhand Open doors Some toddlers could possibly be able to . . . Name people and pets when shown a picture Form short but complete and understandable sentences Walk down stairs with some assistance Open and close doors
http://www.thenewparentsguide.com/baby-development-month-22t o24.htm
Child Development Month 22 to 24
Month 24 Most children should be able to . . . Name at least 5 or more parts of a dolls body or their own body Half of their speech is understandable Form three or four word sentences Put on and take off clothing alone Some children will probably be able to . . . Walk down stairs unassisted Talk about themselves; likes and dislikes Arrange things in categories Start asking “why” to everything Some children could possibly be able to . . . Start to understand gender differences Start to understand concepts like better or worse, sooner or later, etc. Like to sing and jump
And FINALLY............
Here is a poster of symptoms of a child with autism http://www.autism-biomed.org/poster.htm
From http://www.dars.state.tx.us/ecis/resources/developmentmilest ones.shtml and http://www.eci-lps.org/is_this_typical.html
Here is typical development from Birth to age 12 http://www.todaysparent.com/toddler/behaviordevelopment/arti cle.jsp?content=3237&page=1
lol. Well I meant resisting eye contact. You'd have to see it. It's avoidance of direct contact when nervous in his case. Perhaps I didn't describe it correctly.
Amber
Many of the signs you listed sound a lot like autistic signs, but it's always good to do other tests to rule out other things. Most husbands are going to be cranky and in denial. You just follow your instincts, which by what you wrote sound very vaild. My son is same age as yours (just turned 2 last mth) and has speech of 17th mth old. He is in the process of evaluation also. He doesn't even have some of the signs you listed. I am thinking he might be pdd-nos at this time. But he loves to close doors also. He, like your son, can't open them either and so he gets locked in rooms all the time. Other little things like sideways glances, tantrums, self biting when upset or excited, being easily overstimulated, picky eater, etc all can add up to the disorder. Be aware that many will not see it and say he's fine. You just follow your heart. Welcome to our board!
Amber
When was sideway glances made a characteristic of pdd-nos? Most people do sideway glances. Parents do it all the time.
Tammy
Not to backtrack, but I found what I was talking about w/ the corner of the eye. I couldn't explain what I meant. It was from the post of DanielleandOwen about the stimming check list and one of them is "looking at things out of the corner of their eyes" and "looking at things at unusual angles" which is what ds does. LOL I was just happy to find what I was talking about! It is post: http://www.autism-pdd.net/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1101& ;PN=13