I have just returned from a large area Rehab hospital, where I took my 4 year old for the initial evaluation and OT / ST. While we were waiting in the lobby of the Pediatric Out patient center, there were 6 children (including mine) in the waiting room. A therapist came and got one child, the Mom stayed in the waiting room. As 15 minutes turned into 20 and 20 into 30, my child (who has behaviors and patience is not his strong suit), began to get louder and louder and harder and harder to soothe. The Mom said something to him, in a soothing voice,about what a big boy he was and how he was doing a great job waiting. She looked at me and said, he reminds me so much of my son at that age, I would say he is 4 and weighs about 50 pounds, but still wants to be held like a baby (I was trying to hold, rock and soothe him). I told her that she was right, he just turned 4 andhe weighs 54 pounds. Then she said it.... "He has autism doesnt he?". I said yes he does. SHe said, "he has sensory problems doesnt he?". I said yes he does. Then comes the point of my post. Of the 6 families in that waiting room, each had overheard us (though we were not speaking loudly) and 5 of us had children that had autism. One by one the others spoke up and said my son / daughter has autism..... I still just feel stunned by that. Was that just a fluke occurance? Or is ASD really becoming that dominat a problem. I feel so sad. On a positive note, I am pleased with the therapists that we received and remain (as always) hopeful that my child can progress if given the right therapy and support. The getting the "right" things seems to be an ongoing problem, but I am sure no one here needs to be told that. We went back to the Dr June 1 and DS's left ear was clear but the right one was still somewhat pink. We go back Monday........we put him back on the Zyrtec, at least for the next few months. Our sleep has been so horrid. Please remember us in your prayers and we will return the favor.. Thanks for listening, Vickie Jean
Hey there my friend, i will most certainly keep you in my prayers, although alarming, it most of been nice to share a waiting room with other parents that truelly understand what life is like for you. and yes, the increase of the disorder is reaching epedemic rates. i am glad that you have found therapists that will help address your little guys problems and yes, always remain hopeful that he will gain new skills and progress will follow. i do for not only my son but for all of our kids! Take care and try to get some rest.
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