I am not sure what to do. My ds is in swimming, he's been at the same level for four times (minnows).
I'm pretty upset about it. He is almost 6 but in a class with 2/3 yr olds. I know it is my issue and I am having a hard time coming to terms with him not progressing. He doesn't even realize that he is with younger kids.
But how do I go about this?? Should I continue to put him in with much younger kids? He is going to realize it soon. His friend who is 3 just graduated from the class after one shot. I want him to be in age appropriate classes (or at least where he looks like he fits in) and model that behaviour. I want him to be included and treated "normally". I know he isn't there developmentally, ack, so is this something I need to come to terms with or should I be fighting for him to be included with additional supports?? It's not *just* swimming, but soccer too.
Hi! I know how you are feeling about this. It is hard but you must consider your sons developmental level in some areas may not be the same as others his age. If he is not having a problem with it yet then I would not worry about it. Do you swim with him and practice skills they are teaching in the class? I also have some experience with teaching kids to swim.......it is important to master each level ....there really shouldn't be a rush to get through it.....it is not a competition (although some people may make it seem like it is) Part of the problem with autistic kids in swim lessons is physical development and coordination and sometimes the biggest problem is understanding the instructions! You may have to talk with the instructors and let them know they may need to rephrase things so he will understand. If he is still enjoying it keep him in it ......or take him out of lessons for awhile and works on the skills with him during open swim and try lessons again in a month and see if he has progressed. Are private lessons available? That is also an option to explore.