Hello my Friends,
Well, it took ALOT more than what they told me that I had to do. They also told me that it would be kept strictly confidential from her as to who committed her, well that was a lie too. Not only will she KNOW, but they have to give her copies of the papers that I signed, it's the LAW!! NOW they tell me!!! I'm so scared now, you see I was supposed to take her to the store today because she doesn't drive, so she expected to see me & now I'm afraid to answer the phobe & she's called 3 times already! I don't know WHEN the police will go get her, she has no clue what's about to happen to her, I feel horrible!!!! I know she needs the help & this is the only way to get her to take her meds, but she's going to HATE me & possibly never speak to me again, not to mention take the baby from me, which she is NOT capable of caring for her baby.
Gotta go, the baby is crying....me too!
Thanx everyone for all your kind words!
Linda Hang in there I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling and what you are going through! I know it isnt easy but know in your heart you are doing the best thing you can for her and THAT is what being a mom is all about loving them unconditionally despite their nasty attitudes towards us and being there for them if it means helping them through it. Hang in there! You have our support! I hope Tony does alright through all the change as well.Tony's Mom,
Oh sweetie I am so sorry to hear that you all are going through this. I know all to well what a mental hospital is like unfortunately. The good thing is that she is getting help and the sooner that happens the better for everyone. It must be so hard though for you being her mother...not only worring about her but her child and your other child as well as you go though this. I think it was completely appropriate to let him know where you are going today. Especially since he is going to have to be there too. Unfortunately not everthing that happens in life is a bed of roses so to speak. No one has a perfect life. I think it's how we get through the bumps in the road that make us the people we are. You will be in my prayers as you are going through this...and please keep us posted!!
Karrie
So sorry to hear that... Hope she is better soon. I will be praying for youHello yet again my friends
I know I sound like I complain alot, but I just got a phone call from one of the many people who TRY to work with my oldest Daughter who is 24 y/o & is mentally ill, well she has gotten so bad off that they're going to have to committ her to the mental ward in the hospital. I'm taking care of her Son, so that's not a problem. He's a month & a half old. Tony (my 9 y/o HFA Son) just doesn't understand why she has to go to the hospital, I had to tell him because I might be the one who has to take her to the hospital, & if I do, I'll have to take him & my Grandson with me, so I had to tell him so that he'd know what to expect...he doesn't like any interruptions in his routine, especially if I don't tell him about the change in advance. Wish me luck y'all! Please send some Prayers our way too! We need all the Prayer we can get!
PS, The hospital people just called & told me that they want ME to have her committed, This day just KEEPS gettin better & better....ugh!!
HI LINDA, OH MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!! AND HERE U NEVER HAVE TO APOLOGIZE FOR COMPLAINING OR VENTING THATS WHY WE ARE YOUR SUPPORT.. DO YOU THINK MAYBE YOU CAN TELL YOUR SON SHE HAS TO HAVE A OPERATION TO MAKE HER BETTER OR CALL HIS PEOPLE THAT WORK W/YOUR SON FOR ADVICE REG. THIS..I AM SO SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS..WE ARE HERE IF YOU NEED US..ILL KEEP YOU IN MY MIND TODAY WHILE YOU GO THROUGH THIS PROCESS..I HOPE SHE GETS THE HELP SHE NEEDS..CYNDIEhey linda, i'll send lots of prayers and hugs your way.just remember you have to do what you think is right for her.if having her commited will help her than go forit,but try and remain strong for her also. she needs you right now. take care and keep us posted.mom2carlooh my Linda....you have a full plate, Honey.....You are in my prayers.....and I will pray for you daughter and son and grandson.....Hang in there ......we are all here for you ......so complain away......it will make you feel better......God Bless honey......
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